{"id":989,"date":"2021-10-11T08:01:17","date_gmt":"2021-10-11T08:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demo.creaadesign.com\/somdutta_dy\/somdutta_blog\/?p=989"},"modified":"2021-10-11T08:01:19","modified_gmt":"2021-10-11T08:01:19","slug":"this-is-why-only-motivation-will-not-help-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/somduttasarkar.com\/blog\/this-is-why-only-motivation-will-not-help-you\/","title":{"rendered":"THIS IS WHY ONLY MOTIVATION WILL NOT HELP YOU"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"728\" height=\"444\" src=\"https:\/\/demo.creaadesign.com\/somdutta_dy\/somdutta_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/doubt-question-interrogation-mark-problem-3385451-728x444-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-271\" srcset=\"https:\/\/somduttasarkar.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/doubt-question-interrogation-mark-problem-3385451-728x444-1.jpg 728w, https:\/\/somduttasarkar.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/doubt-question-interrogation-mark-problem-3385451-728x444-1-300x183.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 728px) 100vw, 728px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cCan you give me some motivation tips?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone asked me the other day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked, \u201cWhy do you want motivation tips?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBecause I am going through some challenges in terms of relationship hence I need some motivation tips.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After listening to the challenges I asked, \u201cWill getting few motivation tips solve your problem?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI think so.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Has this happened with you too?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When we are in problem and in low-emotional phase in life, we think that getting some motivation will solve our problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quick-fix is the go-to solution for majority of the people. Everything is wanted instantly like the 2-minute maggi noodles. But the irony is that it is never made in 2 minutes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how can you expect a quick fix solution to every damn thing in life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>T<\/strong>he facts which no one tells are \u2013<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>We have never been taught how to deal with problems and go through it instead of avoiding<\/li><li>We have never been told that failure is just a lesson and not the end of life<\/li><li>We have never been shown that we all are unique and we need not go by the society norms each and every day of our lives<\/li><li>We have never been said that we all have utmost potential to something great in life<\/li><li>We have never been said that we also need to sacrifice few things in life when we actually want something big in life<\/li><li>We have never been shown that success is for everyone who TRULY wants it<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>O<\/strong>th<strong>er things to keep in mind<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Motivation is temporary. Period.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are not self-motivated, you will always cry and crib when the time is not right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is like an addiction. When it is not there you feel like giving up!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Motivation will fly out of the window if you are not sure on your \u2018why\u2019, your purpose, your passion, your mission and vision on this planet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will always find something or the other to depend on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nowadays, you get so many stuffs on the internet to get motivated but then why do you think so many people still stay sad, stressed, depressed, complaining, crying etc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hope you got your answer why just finding some motivation from here and there won\u2019t help you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When you face any problems or challenges, remember \u2013<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>To first check whether that problem even needs your attention, time and energy or not<\/li><li>Ensure that you have taken all the steps needed to find the solution to it<\/li><li>If you still haven\u2019t found what to do that means you have not applied every possible options you have for the solution<\/li><li>If you are looking for a quick fix, you will always be in that same low state forever<\/li><li>If you want to develop mental toughness for any kind of challenges in life you have to develop courage and that can be achieved by going through the problems itself<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And of course, patience, consistency and never-give-up attitude will always help you go through your challenges in life<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I believe that the real learning happens when we get to know real life stories and experiences. If you also are a student of Life and want to learn more, listen to&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/intensifyhumanity\" target=\"_blank\">Intensify Humanity Podcast<\/a>&nbsp;for more real experiences!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get the real life examples and solutions read my bestselling book&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.in\/dp\/B083QLXLMX?ref=myi_title_dp\">7 Steps from Shame to Being Back in the Game.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Intensify Life!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cCan you give me some motivation tips?\u201d Someone asked me the other day. 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