How to build a successful and fulfilling life as a single woman in this world
Single – never married, divorced, separated, widow, whatever labels are tagged to you, it does not matter. What matters is how to build a successful and fulfilling life as a single woman?
Myself being a single woman having a decent happy life, I think I am eligible to share about this aspect practically for most woman out there.
Let me break this down in to three simple segments :
#1
What is it that’s most important for you to survive and thrive as a single woman in any city/town?
You’re right – Finance
When it comes to finance, one crucial aspect is to separate out your personal and professional/business finance (many…many people do not know this).
A simple calculation would be how much you require for your your survival or basic necessities for the next 12 months, have it in your account. Then you can check for the remaning requirements like debt payment, insurance, leisure activities, investments etc.
Knowing your numbers is the the key to unlocking your financial stability and freedom.
I was someone who used to run away from numbers and never understood them.
But when I started looking it by breaking down into smaller steps, it became very easy and helped me get to my financial goals!
#2
Next comes is something which if gone, then you are gone! – Health
How good do you feel mentally, physically and emotionally?
Do you feel energetic most of your time throughout the day? Do you manage your emotions or your emotions manage you?
Being healthy means overall health and fitness. Especially being a women when you grow age wise it becomes more important for you to take care of your health seriously.
Your health is your true wealth.
When you are fit and healthy, you feel goo and you look good as well 🙂 How awesome is that!!
#3
The next segment is your Relationships
Relationship begins with the relationship with your own self.
How do you treat yourself?
How do you care for yourself?
How much time are you giving for yourself?
Remember – how you are with yourself will reflect in your external relationships as well.
One of the crucial aspects as a single woman to live and thrive is to have a close nit people whom you can trust and rely upon.
It could be your partner, your friend or family.
Even just one person, but it’s important that you nurture your relationships as well.
At the end I would like to add this section…
Success & fulfillment
You need to decide what does success mean to “you”?
You might be fed with a lot of information consciously or sub consciously about success which frames a certain tendency in you in terms of your thought process, behaviour and decision making patterns which ultimately will lead you to something that you are not happy or fulfilled about.
So before getting into anything have the clarity what does success mean to you and not anyone else.
In that case you will be clear as to how you need to plan and make your decisions.
This will save not just your time, energy and money but will also give you the power to understand how to stand out from the noise and listen to your internal voice.
Hope this helps. Would love to hear from you your experience your perspective!
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Intensify Life!
Som