If nothing is working in your favour in life

How to get clarity when everything seems to falls apart, nothing is working out, nothing is giving the result you are looking for?

Have you been asking this to yourself since quite some time now?

Well there was a time I was in this phase and honestly quite few times again and again.

Be it personal work or professional, without any exception, nothing worked out for me!

Whatever I was trying, everything failed or became a road block itself.

To make things worse, I was in the middle of a personal and financial crisis.

World felt apart. Felt completely alone and end of everything!

But it’s said right ‘necessity is the mother of invention’. Something like that started happening.

I was desperate and in extreme state to find solution and answers to the problems I was facing.

I was mad to come out of the state and phase in life.

So I took the first step – I became silent, within.

Once I cut out the noise and unnecessary chatter of the worrisome mind, things started to become clear.

Once I started grasping the simple logic and reasons behind the situations and circumstances that ruined half my life, I slowly found myself untying the knots.

These are the things that happened which led me to not just become free but become a completely different person. Now I don’t react or get angry, don’t feel; sorry for myself or any situation, no regrets, no living in the past. All I feel is immense gratitude and happiness every single moment every single day!

Not possible you think?

Well, trust me, it’s very much possible practically.

All you need to do is just try it out yourself and be consistent and have belief in yourself at the least.

• Become silent, embrace it. Cut out the inner and outer noise.
• Acceptance – Accept and understand that till the last second that’s gone, you can’t go and change anything. You can only change things in present. So accept the REALITY.
• Think – “Okay, now what? What next can be done?” Ask this question to yourself. This will lead you to the next point….
• Priority – What is the priority right now for you? Is it clearing off your debt? Is it your health concern? Is it your relationship? Or what is your priority? You need to make it because nobody else can.
• Once you decide, ensure you make a plan to fulfill it.
• Act – Once the plan is done, act on it. A plan cannot work by itself, you have to work on it!
• Repeat and be consistent

Here are some important hidden lessons – 

While you are following the roadmap, never underestimate the power of your spiritual journey, you taking care of your health and your internal and external environment.

While the internal environment is completely in your hands, you need to be very careful to select your external environment i.e. people and place.

However you love hanging around with certain people, but if that is one of the reason that’s a negative impact on your growth in life, you need to get rid of it immediately.

Small pain can lead to bigger gains in life. This is not just material-wise but also in your overall aspect as well.

Come what may, never leave your spirituality. Because at the end it is the only thing that will keep you going, alive and happy. Remaining everything will fade away but not the light that you get within you because of your spiritual journey.

Hope you got some clarity!

See you in my next article 🙂

(You can also get practical insights of implementation from my book ‘7 Steps from Shame to Being Back in the Game‘)